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This I swear

It all leads up to this moment. The moment we say I do. The moment little girls dream of their whole life. The moment we look forward to. Mostly because of the excitment of who the one for us is going to be. Marriage is sacred. It’s the most Holy promise made between two souls. A promise to cherish from the day it’s made and until death do you apart. Unfortunately it’s not how it ends up most of the time.

How can it go from love to hate? How can a person break their promises, or their vows? How can feelings change so much?

I feel today it has become too normal to get a divorce. It has become too normal to walk away from everything. Sometimes we just need to look through old pictures and through videotapes, to realize that what we have is worth fighting for. We cannot quit that easy on the people that once gave us a reason to wake up in the morning. We cannot quit on people that once were the reason we were happy. Some things are worth fighting for. Don’t ever quit something you, never even tried to keep.

“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. ” – Mignon McLaughlin

“I love being married. It’s so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” – Rita Rudner



What Kind of Silence Would Appear if People Started Saying ALL They Know?

I feel like this world has become such a terrible place to live in lately. So much hate, so much anger, so much jealousy, so much gossip. What for? I mean really what for? Do I gain something? Do I get happier? Do I get richer? Do I have anything in this world to gain? NO!

I often ask myself why do people talk sooo much shit about others? Why do people spend so much of their time worrying about somebody else? I feel that people are HAPPY when your life is a living hell. I mean this for real. Once you are happy, nobody says GOOD job. You earned this. She worked hard for this. It is soo much focus on the negative side of everything, and spending so much energy on bringing somebody down. People always want to make such a big deal out of somebody elses mistakes, but spend a lifetime hiding their own shame. So I ask my self “What kind of silence would appear if people started saying ALL they know? What if the whole world knew, all your mistakes, all your secrets or all your thoughts? What if everyone knew everything about you, all the things you try to hide, try to forget, try to pretend like they never happend. Would you be able to walk with your head held up as high as you do now? I do not think so. You know why? Because we are all human. We all have lessons that life has thought us through making the wrong decisions. And yes, YOU do too! It’s just the way it is. People need to close their mouth a lot more in fact. Because this planet we call earth would be one silent place to live in if we all started saying all we know….Don’t you agree?

I am HAPPY! You know why? I don’t gossip. I don’t talk behind your back. I am not jealous. I don’t hate. I only care for me, myself and I, so therefore I smile.

“Mistakes are a part of being human. Appreciate your mistakes for what they are: precious life lessons that can only be learned the hard way. Unless it’s a fatal mistake, which, at least, others can learn from.” – Al Franken