Fear of love. It’s one powerful thing. We take chances in life when it comes to everything. Somehow love always is the one thing we are afraid of. What if it does not work? What if we are not meant to be? What if he breaks my heart? You will only know if you try. It all starts with a hello, and grows into texting, which leads into meeting, and the chances for love are huge, we just need to give it a try. Love is powerful, and works it’s magic like nothing else in this world.
We are often afraid to fall in love with a completely new person. Sometimes we feel insecure, because we have a good thing already in life, and taking chances with a completely new person, can be scary. But remember, it can be the best thing that happened to you! We need to let loose, and stop thinking what if this? What if that? and start acting. Start taking chances. It’s worth it. It pays of. You only live once and Life is too short, to let that one get away.
“I fear love. I fear that you will never love me, but what I fear even more, that I will never stop loving you. I fear that I will always ask myself “What if…””
Some days ago I watched Titanic in 3D. What can I say? I am in LOVE with Titanic. There is no other movie that makes me laugh og cry, like Titanic. This is the one and only movie, I love. My favorite, and yes I have watched it way too many times, and many more I will. Every time I laugh at the same scene and every time I cry at the same scene. I always think a lot after. The sudden love between Jack and Rose, is something we all would love to feel one day. The passion, the excitment, the curiosity. The fact that she leaves a man who can provide her with everything, for a man who does not know where he will sleep the next day, is so amazing. Money doesn’t matter. At the end of the day all is nothing without love.
My favorite scene in the movie is, when Rose jumps back on Titanic, and runs to Jack. The way they look and kiss is breathtaking. “I jump, You Jump” that is what love should be about. I put myself in their shoes. I would have done the same thing. If I was about to die, or knew there was a chance I would not see my Love again, I’d rather spend our last hours together than save myself. What is life worth without the person you love? What is life without love?
Have you ever loved a Bad Boy? Have you ever felt the excitement of loving someone who does something to you, that not even you can put words on? Someone who makes you feel like you never felt. Someone you not only want to do good with, but also bad. Someone who makes you careless. Someone who makes you go out of your comfort zone. It seems like no matter how many men, women have in front of their eyes, we always find our way to that one Bad Boy in our life. Seems like every girl wants a bad boy, who only will be good to her. For some reason we have that one, that we always go back to. The reason for that nobody around us knows, including ourselves. Even if we know that there is someone better for us, we don’t want them. We are in love with the unkown. We are in love with being suprised by his actions. We apreciate one sweet word from our bad boy, more than a thousand from someone else. I guess we are all at the end of the day, fools in love.
It all leads up to this moment. The moment we say I do. The moment little girls dream of their whole life. The moment we look forward to. Mostly because of the excitment of who the one for us is going to be. Marriage is sacred. It’s the most Holy promise made between two souls. A promise to cherish from the day it’s made and until death do you apart. Unfortunately it’s not how it ends up most of the time.
I feel today it has become too normal to get a divorce. It has become too normal to walk away from everything. Sometimes we just need to look through old pictures and through videotapes, to realize that what we have is worth fighting for. We cannot quit that easy on the people that once gave us a reason to wake up in the morning. We cannot quit on people that once were the reason we were happy. Some things are worth fighting for. Don’t ever quit something you, never even tried to keep.
“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. ” – Mignon McLaughlin
“I love being married. It’s so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” – Rita Rudner
A man who treats his lady as a Princess, proves that he was raised by a Queen. I believe this is true. The way your man treats you reflects on his upbringing. Only a real man treats you the way you deserve. When you feel like a princess, you will act like one. You will appreciate your man, and return to him by treating him as your prince. The only way to a long lasting love, is through respect. A woman is not born to serve a man, nor is a man born to serve a woman. We choose our partner in life by falling in love. In order to keep that love throughout a life time is by being right by your partner in everything. If your man is outside and chopping wood, help him. If your woman is in the kitchen cleaning after dinner, help her. There is no such thing as “that job is for men/women”. If you take a second to think about it. Do you as a woman love when you get help around the house? Do you as a man love when you get help around the garden? The answer is YES I DO. Be there for eachother. Love is respect.
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